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Friday, November 22, 2013

Haqqani Suhbats: ' The Complaining Slave ' by Shaykh Mehmed Effendi q.s

Haqqani Suhbats: ' The Complaining Slave ' by Shaykh Mehmed Effendi q.s

The Complaining Slave

by Shaykh Mohammad Effendi qs
31 October 2012 – Lefke Cyprus


Syaikh Mehmet Effendi qs

As-Salamu Alaikum. Tariqatuna sohbah wa l-khayri fil jamia'. If mankind accepts what Allah says & is content with what Allah wants he is at rest. Because Allah (awj) wants people to be on the right way. And the right way is to have faith. From Adam (as) up till now, till our Prophet (sas) came 124.000 Prophets. And each one... For some, Books were descended upon them. Allah descended Books upon them so they spoke to people with it. 

Descending, descending. Finally the Holy Quran descended and completed all. What we want to say is that all the religions were True religions but their times have passed. Now the time is the time of Islam. Allah's pleasure is with those who follow it. And Muslims should show contentment for being granted this gift from Allah, for all conditions: People can be rich, can be poor. Every condition, every situation is what Allah wants, what Allah thinks suitable. You should be content with it. It can be that you are poor. Most people get wild, go astray when they get money.  

Therefore Allah (awj) made it like this, created man like this. He should be content with it. The dunya life is already for a short time. Before you live it, it looks long but when you live...When you look ahead, years, days look very long to people but when he looks back & sees the life he lived he gets surprised. Only yesterday I was a kid, I was young... It was only last year, it was spring. How it passed so fast & it become autumn again. Days are passing by fast.

Therefore if you are going to live a few days, live it by pleasing Allah. And what pleases Allah? If you are content on this way & do as He says, Allah will be pleased with you. Of course dunya is a place of test, is a place of difficulties. Definitely, whether you are the strongest man in the world or the weakest, whether you are the richest man or the poorest man, each one has different tests, different things. Meaning there is no one who will come to this world & find rest. Who is at rest is the one who is content with what Allah does. This is coming from Allah, it is the order of Allah. If this didn't happen something else will come on us. We can't get along with this person but if is not him, then it can be something worse. There are endless people on Allah's side & man can't live alone also. Man's condition can change every minute, different states can come. Therefore be content with your condition it could be worse. There is a nice story that Mawlana used to tell. Mawlana tells us to tell such stories because it is good to do so & it says in Quran also "So relate the stories" (7:176).

The scholars don't like stories. These new ones that showed up recently. There were slaves in old times of course. And if the slave wants he can ask his master "Sell me, I am not very pleased." And some sell so that he won't get upset. One slave, his master would eat lettuce. The master would make him eat the sides of the lettuce & he would eat the middle part. He happened to like it more. The slave got upset &asked his master to sell him. His master sold him. His new master this time was eating the middle part & the sides, all of it without giving him anything. He got upset even more, saying "I was not even content with the old one what kind of a thing is this?" He asked his master to sell him & he did.

They saw that this third man, he made him as a candle holder, put candle on his head. He lit the candle & he was sitting. And the slave is keeping quiet, is not asking him to sell himself although he has no comfort like he had before. He was very comfortable before, he was much better. They asked him "Are you crazy? This man is torturing you like this. How come you didn't like the good master & made him sell you & now you fell into the hands of this worse one." He said "You can't interfere with Allah's business. Each time I was not content with my master, I fell to worse ones. The first one was like this, then I fell to a worse one & this 3rd is the worst. I am afraid that if I ask this man to sell me, the new one will say 'you have too much oil in your eyes' & burn it also so I'm content with this". So there is always worse. Show contentment. If you show contentment, you will be at rest. Who is not content always burns himself from inside & finishes & can't do anything about it either, it is not possible to stand against Allah.

Today we speak about people are all time in stress, in bad mood. Why? Who is following what Allah ordering & happy with this order, Allah will be happy with him & this people or human being or whatever they will be satisfied. Allah what He order, Allah what He is happy with people? Allah happy with people to be in right way. And right way, what is this? It is religion. Because He is ordering what to do. There was from Adam (as) until Sayyidina Muhammad (sas) 124.000 Prophets (as) coming. And each one, coming following.. Maybe making, Allah ordering new thing or to do something. Some of them have Book also from Allah, like Tawrat, like Injil.  And last one Quran, complete all these Books.

So Allah is happy with people they are believe. We believe in all religions since coming from Adam (as) until Prophet Muhammad (sas). We accept them, we accept them all & Quran also accept them. But now it is time of Quran because it is real miracle, everything inside from Tawrat or from Bible, or from.. all Books inside Quran. And Allah happy with people following His order. Now order is in Quran. Who are trying to make new law, new thing, Allah not happy with that. And they will never be happy, these people. Because when you following Allah's law, you must be happy with your situation.

Allah create people, some of them rich some of them poor, some of them weak some of them strong. From Allah this. If you accept this from Allah, you will be satisfied & you will be happy. No harm. Because maybe to be poor man better. Many people when they find money they become out of right way, going bad way. And money is nothing. And human being, if the most richest one in the world. If you are the most richest one in the world or you are the poorest one or you are strongest one, or you are weakest one, everybody Allah put for them some difficulty, to make people not be happy in this world. The most richest man, you think he is the most happiest one? No, not at all, at all... We know the most richest one in Turkey. He was 65 years & become cancer and then.. And he had disabled children also..

So you can't buy happiness with money. So for this, you must accept your situation & be happy with Allah, so that time you will be rest. Other, if you say "No, this man is very bad, this is not good, what is this?" Ok, this man not good but there is, Allah create billions people. If this not good, Allah send another one. If you are not happy with that He (swt) send another one. Your situation not good, He send-you can find another difficulty. In this world, in this life until you die it is like this. Even you don't know after 5 minute what will happen also. So you must be accept Allah's order & you say this is from Allah, so you will be rest. Otherwise, you are burning from inside.

And there is one story, my father, many time we hear from him & he said "When make sohbat, say some story also". Story good, even in Quran Allah ordered"Faqsusi Al-Qasas"(7:176).Tell story about people. There was one slave. Before in old time you know there were slaves; you can buy them, you can sell them. And in Muslim country, when some slave is not happy with his master he can tell him "you can sell me". He sells him. This, he was working with man. He was very good. But when he was eating some kind of salad, it has branch. Giving branch for this slave & he eat inside. He look one, two..& become making this problem for himself.

He said "Please sell me, I don't want to be with you anymore". He take him to where they sell slave. He sell him to another man, buying him. Another one, when he was working with him, he was eating whole salad not giving anything for him. So he become more angry & tell him "sell me". Ok. Third one, looking he is not around anymore & they coming seeing him they were shaving his head & he put candle on his head, this new master. He is not saying anything. They were astonishing "You were in good master & you say 'sell me'. What you do this for yourself? This man is very bad treat you. It is not human being treatment, what is this..?"

He said "I am afraid, every time I am getting worse & worse. And this is Ok. If I say to sell me maybe other one will say 'your eyes, too much oil in your eyes. Take your eye's oil & burn it' So I am happy, ok with this". So there is condition worse & worse.. So you must be happy with your condition.

Wa min Allah at-Tawfiq, Al Fatiha.

Haqqani Suhbats: ' Black Magic ' by Shaykh Mehmed Effendi (Qs)

Haqqani Suhbats: ' Black Magic  ' by Shaykh Mehmed Effendi (Qs)  

Black Magic 

By Shaykh Mehmed Effendi qs
30 October 2012 – Lefke Cyprus


Shaykh Mohammad Effendi qs

As-Salamu Alaikum. Tariqatuna sohbah wal-khayri fil jamia'. Every prayer of those who go to Hajj, who sit next to the Kaaba has 100.000 rewards. And 10.000 rewards for those who go to Madina or whatever they do, this reward multiplies to 10.000, 100.000 in these places. And 1.000 for Masjid al Aqsa, for Jerusalem. When people go to these holy places just as they gain rewards, when they commit sins they have great consequences.  

Therefore you should be careful, don't lose from one side while trying to gain from another. You should control your ego & avoid sins. Why did we say this now? There are also people coming here, they come to visit Mawlana. And of course that is. There is Hadith Sharif which says "When a Muslim goes to visit another Muslim, for each step he takes one sin is forgiven & a reward is written. His level goes up". Then what about visiting the beloved servant of Allah, waliullah? Of course it is multiple times more reward.

Many people come here for the love of Allah, love of the Prophet (sas), love of mashayikhs. And when they come here, many of them stay keeping their good manners. MashaAllah 99% percent of those who come are like this but.. They are like this but.. It is said "Being close to the Sultan is like burning fire". For this, instead of staying too long or living in Madina & not missing it, missing is much more reward for the people. One lives in Madina al-Munawwara & gets used to it; it becomes normal.  

And there are people who live close to Mawlana. Of course they too, all of them think now that.. They take it as normal, ordinary. They don't try to keep adab. What is worse than this is they think of themselves highly. They think that they have become something & are trying to hunt the people.. They sit lazily all they long & say to the people coming "you have jinn, you have shaytan, black magic on you.." They try to take benefit from the people who only come to please Allah. What they gain like this gives no benefit to them. They also have kids. They should consider it also, how these kids will grow up with their shamelessness, using the name of Allah you disturb the people although there is nothing & say exactly the opposite of what your Shaykh says & on top of it you have beard, turban without shame.  

If you see this man, you think he is something. Even the Grand Mufti does not have such majesty. We are saying this openly so that people won't be deceived. It is a pity, people are coming here all the way. Why are we saying this? There was a lady, she had such a problem 3 years ago and told Mawlana. He said to her "you are Ok" and also made dua for her. She was at rest. Recently she came, trembling -"the man held me saying 'you have jinn, black magic..'" This is a shame. If you are not ashamed, then you have children whose end won't be good with this money you take from people this way. It doesn't give you or others any benefit. And we are saying the lightest punishment in dunya, leave aside the disgrace in akhirah. Therefore who deals with jinn, sihr, black magic..These things are already from the great sins. There are 7 great sins & this is one of them, to deal with sihr, black magic. If you tie a knot in a rope & blow on it with the intention of black magic you are out of religion. This is Hadith. To believe in them also and go to magic makers, your tawba is not accepted for 40 days.  

So you should be careful with this also. Don't you ever go to such people. You ask them many things & they never give you a proper answer then when something like this comes up they speak this way, beware of this. Allaha Shukur, Masha Allah this thing (Saltanat recording) is good. Many people we would never think of say "we saw you, heard you." It is good then Allah Shukur, we declare to everyone that they should beware. They should stay away from people who say "I can do black magic, jinn things". Especially ladies, those men who say "we deal with jinn" they take advantage. Stay away from them.  

We didn't say this last time, I am saying this time openly: Those who deal with jinns are rapists. Stay away. Today we speak about Hajj- who going to Kaaba, to Prophet's (sas) mosque, to Masjid al-Aqsa..Who going to mosque, Kaaba; who pray there or making charity Allah give 100 000 more than another place. For mosque of Prophet (sas) 10 000x more. For Masjid al-Aqsa in Quds,1000x more. When you do this, you must do as you can do worship, you can do good thing, charity; do there. But you must be careful to not make sin in this area. Because also when you make sin, it is also like this- coming 100.000x for you.  

So you must be careful for this. Why do we say this? Because many people coming for visiting Mawlana Shaykh. And to visit one mu'min/believer to his brother- Hadith, Prophet (sas) saying "For each step, Allah forgive him 1 sin & give him, rewarding him 1 reward & making high, one step more high". This is what, for normal believer, to visit each other. And you are coming now here, you are visiting inheritor of Prophet (sas) & Allah's beloved servant. So it is more high than normal believer. 99% they are coming, by pure heart & good intention here. But there is maybe 1%, it is coming for another intention.

And there is another thing, who are living here since long time, little bit become like normal to be around Mawlana Shaykh. And there was saying for living in Madina; also not so good to live there because you feel you are in normal place. You are not taking care of adab. You are like another place. So it is better to be away from Madina, to like to go there, to burn to go there. You would like to go visit this place. But when you live there, it is like any other placeyou are sitting & living.

And who is living around Mawlana, they are now like normal. Not so much. And there are some people also they getting worse. They only for they are lazy, not doing anything & they are making to get money, to cheat people. They are saying "You have jinn, you have magic, black magic. You have like this, I know I know..." And this is the worst thing can be done for this, who is doing this. Because they have children. And when you make this & you take money & feed your children from this money I don't think this children will be good for you or for other people.

This is the first thing in dunya. In akhirah you will be more shy to in front of Prophet (sas) & Allah (awj) for what you do this. And Prophet (sas), there is big 7 sins. One of them is to make magic. And this people, especially if you tied one rope & blow on it Prophet (sas), this is also magic. And who do this, coming out from iman. This is very dangerous. And why I say this? Because one week ago, there was one lady she was 3 year before, she was here & she asked Mawlana. He said "no black magic for you, nothing" & just he read for her & she was Ok. And she coming complaining to me that in hotel there was one man coming to her & tell her "you have black magic..." & she was trembling.

And so I said "No, who say right? Your Shaykh say right. You don't have anything". Don't go to this people, crooked people. And especially for ladies, don't go to this magic people especially who saying "we will do magic or we know something from jinn". Because they are dangerous for ladies. They are..what is pervert? rapist? No shame but also for lady, they are dangerous to make bad thing. They are famous in these countries, Syria, Lebanon, Turkey. I think other place also, same like this. So from here, this is good to announce for all around the world who are listening: be careful. Be careful & you Mawlana Shaykh since 40 year he went to London, around all world & everybody know him. He never say "I make this & I do this, I speak with jinn or other.." So be careful nobody cheat you. This is very important because every time people asking for this for that. Only can make dua from Mawlana & his taweez, it is enough. No need for another thing, to go for this people.

Wa min Allah at-Tawfiq, Al Fatiha.

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Haqqani Suhbats: ' The Companion of Prophet (sas) and The Burglar ' by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani(Qs)

Haqqani Suhbats: ' The Companion of Prophet (sas) and The Burglar ' by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani(Qs) 

The Companion of Prophet (sas) and The Burglar

By Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani qs
Lefke Cyrpus, 30 August 2013




Bismillahir Rahmaanir Rahim

There was a Companion of the Prophet (sas) who was a businessman who bought and sold and people invested money with him as he was a pious, sincere servant of Allah (swt).  One day on a trip, a thief saw him, followed him and said, “Give me everything you have and I am going to kill you!”.

That poor Sahaabi (ra) looked at him and said, “La hawla wa laa quwwata illa billah! How I came on this problem? Okay, I’ll give you the  money, but let me free, why do you need my blood?”. The thief said, “No, this money is mine and whether you like it or not, I will take your money and then kill you!” Like today they take your money and then kill you so you cannot be witness against them, but where are you going to hide from Allah? May Allah forgive us!

The Sahaabi (ra) said, “If you are going to kill me, let my last moments be in Allah’s Hands, let me make wudu and pray four rak`ats.” The thief said, “Who cares? Pray as much as you like. I am here and going to take your money and then kill you!”.  So the man prayed four raka`ats and in his sajda, he said:

یَا وَدُودُ ، يَا ذَا الْعَرْشِ الْمَجِيدِ ، يَا فَعَّالُ لِمَا تُرِيدُ ، أَسْأَلُكَ بِعِزِّكَ الَّذِي لَا يُرَامُ ، وَمُلْكِكَ الَّذِي لَا

Yaa Wadood, yaa Wadood! Yaa Dhal-`Arshi ‘l-Majeed! Yaa fa`aalan limaa tureed! As’aluka bi `izzika ‘Lladhee laa yuraam wa bi-mulkika ‘Lladhee laa yudaam wa bi-noorika ‘Lladhee mala’a arkaana `arshika an takfiyanee sharra haadha ‘Llis. Yaa Mugheethu, aghithnee! Yaa Mugheethu, aghithnee! Yaa Mugheethu, aghithnee!

O Loving One! O Lord of the Glorified Throne! O You Who does what He wants! I ask You through Your Might which can not be harmed, and Your Dominion which can not be defeated, and Your Light which filled the Pillars of Your Thrown, that You protect me from the evil of this thief! O Savior of Calamity, save me! O Savior of Calamity, save me! O Savior of Calamity, save me!

As soon as he finished, a faris approached, a knight on a horse with a big spear that rested across its ears, and the burglar saw him coming. That faris came to him and killed him without asking any question, then he said to the Companion (ra) of the Prophet (sas), “Stand up.” The Companion (ra) said, “For Allah’s sake, who are you?”
He said:

أَنَا مَلَكٌ مِنَ السَّمَاءِ الرَّابِعَةِ ، دَعَوْتَ اللَّهَ

ضَجَّةً ، ثُمَّ دَعَوْتَ بِدُعَائِكَ الثَّالِثِ ، فَقِيلَ لِي : دُعَاءُ

Ana malakun min ahli ‘s-samaai ‘r-raabi`a fa da`awtallaha bi-du`aaika‘l-awwal fa-sami`tu li-abwaabi ‘s-samaai qa`qa`at, thumma da`awta bi-du`aaika ‘th-thaanee, fa-sami`tu li ahli ‘s-samaai dajjah thumma da`awta bi-du`aaika ‘th-thalaath, fa qeela lee du`aau makroobin, fa-sa’altullaaha ta`ala an yooliyanee qatlahu.

I am an angel from Heaven, from the Fourth Paradise. When you prayed and supplicated the first du`a, the Doors of Heaven began to hear cracking, then you made du`a with the second part and the People of Heavens began to hear commotion, then you made the third du`a and a voice came to me, saying, “This person making du`a is in need of someone,” and so I came to you asking Allah (swt) to send me to kill that burglar.

Wa min Allah at Tawfeeq

Haqqani Suhbats: ' The Importance of Sadaqa, Charity ' by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani(Qs)

Haqqani Suhbats: ' The Importance of Sadaqa, Charity ' by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani(Qs) 

The Importance of Sadaqa, Charity
By Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani
21 July 2013
Fenton Zawiya, Michigan




The Fiqh of Islam, Vol 13, Ramadan Series 2013, Suhbah after Fajr

A`oodhu billahi min ash-Shaytaani 'r-rajeem. Bismillahi 'r-Rahmaani 'r-Raheem. Nawaytu 'l-arba`een, nawaytu 'l-`itikaaf, nawaytu 'l-khalwah, nawaytu 'l-`uzlah, nawaytu 'r-riyaadah, nawaytu 's-sulook, lillahi ta`alaa al-`azheem fee haadha 'l-masjid.

أَطِيعُواْ اللّهَ وَأَطِيعُواْ الرَّسُولَ وَأُوْلِي الأَمْرِ مِنكُمْ

Atee`oollaha wa atee`oo 'r-Rasoola wa ooli 'l-amri minkum.
Obey Allah, obey the Prophet, and obey those in authority among you. (Surat an-Nisa, 4:59)

The hadith al-Haarith al-Asha`ree (r) mentioned by Imam Ahmad (r) in his Musnad and in the book of Tirmidhi, he mentioned, and I will summarise it quickly that Allah ordered Sayyidina Yahya (a) to tell his people about five orders that Allah (swt) ordered them to do:

1) An ta`buda’Llaah wahdahu, to worship Allah (swt) alone. It means, to declare His Oneness, Maqaam at-Tawheed, that there is no Creator except Allah (swt) and that He is not like us, He is with Himself, by Himself, to Himself; no one can be partner and no one can associate himself with Allah (swt). And the Prophet (s) is His Beloved Servant and he (s) is very happy when Allah (swt) calls him, “My Servant,” where He mentioned in Surat al-Israa’:

سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي أَسْرَى بِعَبْدِهِ لَيْلاً مِّنَ الْمَسْجِدِ الْحَرَامِ إِلَى الْمَسْجِدِ الأَقْصَى الَّذِي بَارَكْنَا حَوْلَهُ لِنُرِيَهُ
مِنْ آيَاتِنَا إِنَّهُ هُوَ السَّمِيعُ البَصِيرُ

Subhaan-alladhee asraa bi `abdihi laylan min al-masjid al-haraam ila 'l-masjidi 'l-aqsaa 'Lladhee baaraknaa hawlahu li-nooriyahu min ayaatinaa innahu huwa ‘s-samee`u 'l- baseer.

Glory be to He Who transported His servant by night from the Inviolable House of Worship (at Mecca) to the Remote House of Worship (at Jerusalem), the environs of which We had blessed so that We might show him some of Our symbols, for verily He Alone is All-Hearing, All-Seeing. (Surat al-'Israa, 17:1)

“Praise be to Allah that He took His Servant, Sayyidina Muhammad,” `abdihi, to be called “His Servant.” “Praise be to Allah that He took His Servant, `abdihi,” and the haa is referring to Allah (swt), that He owns him and through him owns everyone, that He took him for Israa’ wa 'l-Mi`raaj.

So we explained that under the Maqaam at-Tawheed section, and the other Order was prayer.

2) As-salaat. We explained what we were able to explain at that time in previous sessions, but there are more to explain later, inshaa-Allah. Then as-siyaam, fasting, he ordered his people by Allah’s Order to fast. The importance of fasting, and we mentioned that and the main one of that, but let’s go a little bit to the prayers.

We mentioned about salaah and we explained how in your salaah all the Five Pillars are within the salaah, you can find within the prayer siyaam, sadaqa, charity, zakaat, hajj and you can find tawheed in the prayer, and we explained that, but there is more to explain.

3) Siyaam, fasting, and the importance of fasting where the Prophet (s) said (that Allah said):

الصوم لي وانا اُجزي به

As-sawmu lee wa anaa ajzee bih.
Fasting is for Me and I will reward it. (Hadith Qudsi)

“Fasting is for Me and I will reward for that.” There are no angels there as intermediary, Allah takes our fasting directly; the fast will rise up to the Presence of Allah (swt), the Divine Presence and Allah (swt) will reward as He likes.

4) Now the chapter, or fourth one, which is very important and has a lot of significance is as-sadaqa, donation, the importance of charity in our lives. Sadaqa cannot be compared to anything, although prayers contain the Five Pillars of Islam. Siyaam is for Allah and sadaqa is something you are giving from yourself, from your wealth. You can pray all the time and the human being can feel that they do not want to be asked for sadaqa. You can fast all the year but, “Don’t ask me for sadaqa!” That is why sadaqa is very important because you are crushing your ego and giving when the self does not like you to give to anyone.

It is very difficult to put your hand in your pocket and give something, but to fast, you fast. If someone will ask you, “Do you prefer to fast one day or to give 1000 golden coins?” what do you say? “I prefer to fast. Don’t ask me for one golden coin.” [Laughter.] But your fast is worth more than 1000 golden coins as Allah said, “Fasting is for Me, salaat is for Him.” Sadaqa is very difficult to give. That’s why Allah said in Holy Qur’an:

لَّيْسَ عَلَيْكَ هُدَاهُمْ وَلَـكِنَّ اللّهَ يَهْدِي مَن يَشَاء وَمَا تُنفِقُواْ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَلأنفُسِكُمْ وَمَا تُنفِقُونَ إِلاَّ ابْتِغَاء وَجْهِ اللّهِ وَمَا تُنفِقُواْ مِنْ خَيْرٍ يُوَفَّ إِلَيْكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ لاَ تُظْلَمُونَ

Laysa `alayka hudaahum wa laakinna ‘Llaaha yahdee man yashaau wa maa tunfiqoo min khayrin fa li-anfusikum wa maa tunfiqoona illaa ‘btighaa wajhi ‘Llaahi wa maa tunfiqoo min khayrin yuwaffa ilaykum wa antum laa tuzhlamoon.

Not upon you, (O Muhammad), is (responsibility for) their guidance, but Allah guides whom He wills. And whatever good you (believers) spend is for yourselves, and you do not spend except seeking the countenance of Allah. And whatever you spend of good, it will be fully repaid to you, and you will not be wronged. (Surat al-Baqarah, 2:272)

“Whatever you spend, you give,” sadaqa is not only money. If you want to know Allah accept your sadaqa, try to raise your sadaqa higher: instead of giving 100, try to say, “Okay, I want to give 300,” and check your ego what he says. If he doesn’t say anything and is happy to give 300, say, “500,” [Laughter.] Then for sure your ego will stop you giving at a number that you cannot accept it, although you may have millions.

عن عمر بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه قال: أمرنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يوما أن نتصدق، فوافق ذلك مالا عندي، فقلت: اليوم أسبق أبا بكر إن سبقته يوما، فجئت بنصف مالي، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: ما أبقيت لأهلك؟ فقلت: مثله، وأتى أبو بكر بكل ما عنده، فقال يا أبا بكر: ما أبقيت لأهلك؟ فقال: أبقيت لهم الله ورسوله، فقلت: لا أسابقك إلى شيء أبدا.

`an `Sayyidina ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab radiyy-Allahu `anhu, qaala: amaranaa rasoolullahi sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallama yawma an natasadiq. fa-waafaqa dhaalik maalan `indee. qultu: al-yawma asbiqu abaa Sayyidina Abu Bakr as-Siddiq in sabaqathu yawman. faji’ta bi-nisfa maalee. fa-qaala rasoolullahi sall-Alalhu `alayhi wa sallama: maa abqayta li-ahlika? fa-qultu: mithluh. wa ataa abu bakrin bi-kulli maa `indahu. fa-qaala yaa abaa Sayyidina Abu Bakr as-Siddiq radiyy-Allahu `anhu: ma abqayta li-ahlika? fa-qaal: abqayta lahumu ’Llahi wa rasoolihi. fa-qultu laa usaabiquka bi-shayyin abadan.

Narrated Umar ibn al-Khattab: The Messenger of Allah (s) commanded us one day to give sadaqa. At that time I had some property. I said: “Today I shall surpass Abu Bakr if I surpass him any day.” I, therefore, brought half my property. The Messenger of Allah (s) asked: “What did you leave for your family?” I replied: “The same amount.” Abu Bakr brought all that he had with him. The Messenger of Allah (s) asked him: “What did you leave for your family?’ He replied: “I left Allah and His Apostle for them.” I said: “I shall never surpass you in anything.”(Abu Dawud)

When the Prophet (s) asked the Sahaabah (r) to give to prepare for weapons for the army against those who were attacking Prophet (s), the Sahaabah (r) brought money; Sayyidina Abu Bakr (r), Sayyidina `Umar (r), Sayyidina `Uthmaan (r), Sayyidina `Ali (r) and many of the Sahaabah (r) brought money. The Prophet (s) asked Sayyidina Abu Bakr (r), “What have you left for your family?”

He said, “Yaa Rasoolullah, I brought everything I own, everything, I have nothing now, completely nothing.”
And he said to Sayyidina `Umar (r), “Yaa `Umar, what did you leave for your family?” He said, “I brought half and left half.” The Prophet (s) said, “Abu Bakr’s imaan is stronger than your imaan,” although the Prophet (s) had said, “If there is another prophet `Umar would be prophet after me.” But, look at the imaan of Sayyidina Abu Bakr (r): he gave everything! He didn’t want his ego to say no, he wanted to stop it, he didn’t want it to say... “I bring everything, what’s my ego going to do? Is it going to hang me?” He gave everything fee sabeelillah.

So sadaqa can be wealth, money, it can be a smile in the face of your brother, as the Prophet (s) said:

تبسمك في وجه أخيك صدقه

Tabasamak fee wajhih akheek sadaqa.
Even a smile in the face of your brother is sadaqa. (Bukhari)

To smile is a sadaqa, to smile in the face of your brother, to visit a sick person is sadaqa, to help a homeless person is sadaqa, to help an old man is sadaqa. One time Sayyidina `Ali, radiAllahu ta`ala `anhu wa ardaahu wa karramAllahu wajhahu wa `alayhi ‘s-salaam, was walking in Madinatu ‘l-Munawarra and in his mind was the hadith of Prophet (s), “To help is a sadaqa,” and he saw a lady, very old, he had never seen her in Madinatu ‘l-Munawarra, like a stranger walking and carrying a basket in her hand, and limping from the weight of the basket. Slowly, slowly walking. Adab, respect, is not to pass someone who is walking, you walk behind.

How much today they pass that one, the other one, they hit that one, hit that one and especially in cars, not only walking people, pedestrians, but cars, also especially in the countries, not here, in the Middle East...I advise anyone who lives in the West not to drive in Lebanon, or Pakistan, or India, or many Middle East countries. [Laughter.] Adab is to walk behind elderly people, not to pass them.

So Sayyidina `Ali (r) was walking behind her and this old lady was moving, and he felt bad for her; he came to her and he said, “O my mother, can I help you?” She looked at him from top to bottom at him, studying him. And she said, “O my son, if you can, if you can, I will be happy if you helped me.” He said, “Can I carry your basket to help?” She put it on the street and said to Sayyidina `Ali (r), “You carry it.” And Sayyidina `Ali (r), you know he is Asadu’Llah al-Ghaalib, he is the Victorious Lion of Allah, he is the strongest person in the universe, he carried wrestlers and threw them...not to carry a basket?

She left it and Sayyidina `Ali (r), doing it as a sadaqa, and we didn’t go through the ahadeeth yet, but this is sadaqa, he took the basket and carried it. He was not able to raise it more than his knees! So heavy that he was unable to raise it up to his knees. It was falling down and the old lady was carrying it and he was carrying it but only up to his knees, while that lady was carrying it and walking.

And then Prophet (s) explained to him later, after he arrived at the masjid, “That old lady is dunya and it is going, moving forward and one day is finishing. What you carried is the weight of the whole world, the Earth, that was the load, the weight of that basket was equal to the whole Earth that Allah has created. You carried that. She gave it to you to carry it; you carried up to your knees.”

Allah (swt) gave him that power to carry, his intention was to make sadaqa and Allah made him to carry the dunya that we are on. It means he is carrying and taking responsibility in the Presence of Prophet (s) and the Presence of Allah (swt) to help the ummah as much as he can. That is why he is Asadu’Llah al-Ghaalib, the Victorious Lion of Allah.

So Allah said in Holy Qu'ran, wa maa tunfiqoo min khayrin fa li-anfusikum, “What you spend in Allah’s Way is for you, not for Me, siyaam is for Me, fasting is for Me, but what you spend is for you, I don’t get anything from it.” Wa maa tunfiqoona illaa ibtighaa wajhi ‘Llaahi, “and you don’t spend except seeking Allah’s Love; you want Allah to be happy with you, that is why you are giving. So sadaqa makes Allah happy with the `abd, the servant.

وصدقة السر تطفيء غضب الرب

w’as-sadaqatu ’s-sirr tutfi`u ghadabu ’r-rabb
Secret charity extinguishes the Anger of Allah. (at-Tabarani)

Allah has anger? Yes, and His anger is not like our anger; it is anger against Shaytan and his harmful traps against the ummah. So, Allah (swt) will not get anything but you will from that sadaqa: wa maa tunfiqoo min khayrin yuwaffa ilaykum, “and whatever you spend of goodness, I have to pay you back on Day of Judgement, you will be paid back. So if you spend ten you will be paid back 700 and more,” because multiplication of hasanaat, hasanaat can be up to 700. You spend one and Allah will give up to 700. Wa antum laa tuzhlamoon, “You will never be oppressed.”

O Muslims! Prophet (s) mentioned in many ahadeeth:

الصدقة ترد البلاء وتزيد فى العمر

As-sadaqatu tarud al-balaa wa tazeedu fi 'l-`umr.
Sadaqa removes sickness and calamities and prolongs life.

“Sadaqa takes away and throws away all difficulties and afflictions and extends your life, increases your life,” not jogging increases your life! Seeing people, men and women on the streets in the morning, and running, and having something here...headphones, headears, and listening we don’t know what they are listening to, and running. No, sadaqa is going to save you. Prophet (s) said, as-sadaqatu tarudd al-balaa wa tazeedu fi 'l-`umr, “Sadaqa turns off afflictions and increases life.”

During time of Prophet (s) there was one lady, a very poor lady. Not like today--Allah is giving them a lot:

لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ

La-in shakartum la-azeedanakum.
If you thank Me, I will give you more. (Surah Ibraaheem, 14:7)

“You thank Me, I give you more!” Because we are in the last days of this world. We see all the signs from Prophet (s) been manifested: “At that time,” Prophet (s) said, “Allah ordered all the favors that are planted under the earth and from Heavens to be thrown on the Ummatun Nabi (s), to be given out, not to be kept.” That is why you see richness now.

So that lady in the time of Prophet (s) no one helping her, she doesn’t have anything, what she eats every day? She bakes three round bread, small, as it is described. One she eats in the morning after Fajr, one she eats at noon after Zhuhr and one in the evening after Maghrib. That was her intention, when she baked, but every day one person came to her at noon saying, “Give me what Allah gave you.”

So she give him every day one bread and she left herself one in the morning and one in the evening. It went on for many, many days and months until one day, she baked three as usual and the one came at midday, he knocked and took his bread and went. Then at Fajr time, as soon as she want to eat someone knocked, a beggar was there asking her for food. She took the bread that she has for Fajr and gave to him; the noontime one is gone. Then she sat to eat at Maghrib and as she broke the bread, a poor person knocked at the door and said, “Give me from what Allah gave you.” She didn’t say, “I don’t have.” She thought to herself, “This man is asking from what Allah gave me, can I refuse what Allah wants? I will give.” So she gave him.

Prophet (s) mentioned that there is a tree in Paradise that has the names of all the people on Earth on each leaf. Sayyidina Azra`eel (a), Malak al-Mawt, is always looking at that tree and when a leaf falls, he knows that he has to take the soul of that person. So as soon as that leaf falls, in no time the Angel of Death will be ready to take the soul. At that moment her leaf was falling down, so immediately the Angel of Death went down to take the soul, but the bread from the morning was covering her mouth and not allowing the soul to be taken. That is according to the hadith of the Prophet (s):

الصدقة ترد البلاء وتزيد في العمر

As-sadaqatu tarudd al-balaa wa tazeedu fi 'l-`umr.
Donations wards off afflictions and increases life.

Don’t jog, what you spend on jogging is better to give to the poor. You spend a lot of money: to park the car in the parking lot, to put gas, go jog, then go back and take a shower and you need to wash the clothes, as they are now sweaty. No, give that money in sadaqa!

The first bread was covering her mouth, so the Angel of Death went to the belly button to take her soul, only to find that the second piece of bread came and blocked him. Then the Angel of Death went to her feet, as sometimes they take the soul from the toe and the Maghrib bread was there blocking him. He said, “Yaa Rabbee, what can I do?” Allah said, “Come up! Didn’t you hear My Beloved Prophet (s) say, as-sadaqatu tarudd al-balaa wa tazeedu fi 'l-`umr, ‘Sadaqa increases life and takes away affliction.’ Go back! There is no need to take her soul, as I am giving more time for her!”

Prophet (s) said:

ما نقصت مال من صدقة

Maa naqasat maala min sadaqa.
Money never decreases from donation. (Sahih Muslim)

“Money will never be less from charity, sadaqa.” If you give ten, Allah will send you 100. Don’t think that you will lose. There have been many poor people in the previous times and in every time as well as present day, and it happened with our teacher, may Allah bless his soul, Grandshaykh `AbdAllah al-Fa'iz ad-Daghestani (q). He used to always keep lots of small coins in his pocket, or his bag, to give to the poor. And this happened maybe 100 years ago. So they were moving from Turkey to Istanbul and traveling by horses which would take four to five hours. And they stopped at different stables to rest the horses as they were tired, or change them.

So when they reached the stables, there too many poor people gathered to collect money from the travelers. And the shaykh gave and gave to everyone, there were many poor people, and then the horses moved forward and stopped before getting to Istanbul and more poor people were there, so he gave and gave until there was no more money. Then he reached Istanbul and more poor people were waiting and he looked and he went to take out but no more money was left. The person was asking, “From what Allah (swt) gave you , give me,” you cannot say to Allah, “No, I am not giving.” That one is not Allah (swt), but is Allah’s Servant and the Prophet (s) said:

وأوصى النبي صلى اللّه عليه وسلم أبا هريرة بوصية عظيمة فقال: يا أبا هريرة! عليك بحسن الخلق. قال أبو هريرة رضي اللّه عنه: وما حسن الخلق يا رسول اللّه؟ قال: تصل مَنْ قطعك، وتعفو عمن ظلمك، وتُعطي من حرمك
(رواه البيهقي).

Awsaa ‘n-nabiyyu sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallim Aba Hurayrah bi-wasهyyati `azheematin fa-qaala: yaa Abaa Hurayrah! `alayka bi-husnu ‘l-khuluq. Qaala Abu Hurayrah: wa maa husna ‘l-khuluqi yaa Rasoolullah. Qaala: tasila man qata`k, wa ta`foo `amman zhalamak, wa tu`tee man haramak.

The Prophet (s) advised Abu Hurayrah (r), “O Abu Hurayrah! Keep good manners.” He said, “Yaa Rasoolullah, what are the best of manners?” the Prophet (s) said, “to connect with the one who severed relations with you; to forgive the one who oppressed you and to give to the one who prevented you receiving your rightful claim.” (Narrated by Bayhaqi)

Connect the one who cut relations with you and give to the one who cut you off. “Give to the one who tries to block you, give to him as well if he asks.” So that is Prophet’s order: to give. Don’t say, “No.”

Mawlana Shaykh didn’t have anything to give but his watch. That watch had been given to him from Sultan `Abdul Hamid, the Ottoman Emperor who received it from the King of France. And it was antique, from 14th or 15th century. He looked and he had nothing left. He took that watch that is worth millions today and gave to that person in order not to send even one person back without giving. It might have been a test, but he gave.

So when you give, as the Prophet (s) described it, “It is like someone traveling in the desert and some group of people, qata`een turuq, highway robbers in the desert,”-- it’s like someone going on the highway and robbers stopped him, and they want to steal from him. They say, “We want to kill you, no way, today you are finished.” And he says, “Can I buy myself?” And they say, “Yes.” He gives all his money to buy his life. It is like that, when you give, you are buying yourself in Akhirah from Allah (swt), to free yourself from punishment, or from judgement.

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏َ"‏ منْ نُوقِشَ الْحِسَابَ عُذِّبَ ‏"‏

Man nooqisha ‘l-hisaaba `udhdhib.
As the Prophet (s) said to Sayyida `Ayesha (r): Anybody whose account (record) is questioned will surely be punished. (Bukhari) and:

من حوسب عذّب

Man hoosiba `udhdhib.
Who will be judged will be punished for sure. (Bukhari)

“Whoever is taken to account by Allah (swt), for sure they cannot be saved, for sure they will be punished.” So this was to tell us: pray every day that Allah (swt) will not Judge you, this is for the ummah to pray in every prayer, “Yaa Rabbee, don’t judge me, send me without any judgement to Paradise.” Because if Allah (swt) wants to judge someone, every detail you did, everything you did in your life will appear, nothing is hidden, like a video, or a server hiding everything inside it, and you see it in front of you.

As Ibn Qayyim said:
فإن للصدقة تأثيرا عجيبا في دفع أنواع البلاء ولو كانت من فاجر أو من ظالم بل من كافرفإن الله تعالى يدفع ﺑﻬا عنه أنواعا من البلاء وهذا أمر معلوم عند الناس خاصتهم وعامتهم وأهل الأرض كلهم مقرون به لأﻧﻬم جربوه

fa inna li-sadaqa katheeran `aajeeban fi ‘l-anw`ai ‘l-balaa, wa law kaanat min faajirin aw zhaalimin bal min kaafir. Fa inna-Llaaha ta`ala yadfa’u bihaa `anhu anwa`an min al-balaa

Sadaqa has an immense interference in preventing the most difficult afflictions, sadaqa will handle it and lessen your problems, your afflictions. even if done by a faajir, corrupted one, or zhaalim, an oppressor or even a non-believer; if he gives sadaqa Allah (swt) will accept. For verily Allah wards off many problems from you when you give sadaqa.

It is not only for some people, but it is for everyone. For Muslims it will be multiplied with no account, but for others it will save them, it will do its work for them.

At-Tirmidhi wrote in his Sahih from the hadith of Anas ibn Malik (r) that the Prophet (s) said:

إِنَّ الصَّدَقَةَ لَتُطْفِئُ غَضَبَ الرَّبِّ وَتَدْفَعُ مِيتَةَ السُّوءِ

Inna ‘s-sadaqata la-tutfi’oo ghadabu ‘r-rabb wa tadfa`u maytati ‘s-soo’.
Indeed charity extinguishes the Lord's anger and it protects against the evil death. (Tirmidhi)

“Sadaqa extinguishes the anger of Allah (swt),” it will put it down. When you know yourself that you did something wrong or bad, quickly throw a sadaqa somewhere, it will take away Allah’s Anger. Wa tadfa`u maytata ‘s-soo’, “and it will take away the bad death,” when someone is dying, “and change it to a good death;” you cannot see that, but the deceased can see that. For sadaqa of the mu’min, you cannot see how much He will take away from the servant when he is dying.

Ibn Qayyim continues:

وكما أﻧﻬا تطفئ غضب الرب تبارك وتعالى فهي تطفئ الذنوب والخطايا كما تطفئ الماء النار

Wa kamaa annahaa tutfi’oo ghadabu ‘r-rabb tabaaraka wa ta`ala wa hiya tutfi’oo adh-dhunoob wa ‘l-khataayaa kamaa yutfiun maa un-naar

and as it extinguishes Allah's Anger, also it will extinguish all kinds of sins and ma`siyya., as water puts out a fire, with the sadaqa, Allah (swt) will extinguish the punishment you might take in Hellfire.

We can go more, I want to mention this hadith but there is no time. I explained it before, but I will mention without explanation now. It is narrated by Bukhari, so make sure you understand when we say, “Bukhari,” because people say, “O Bukhari is okay, and Muslim is okay, but the other six, we have to check,” what do you have to check? What is this stupidity in your mind? Imagine the one who was with the Prophet (s) day and night...The Prophet (s) was sitting with the Sahaabah (r), from morning till night and teaching them.

How many hadith came out in one day? How many? One or two? Hundreds, from morning Fajr time up to `Isha; he would pray `Isha with them and then go to his house, so they stayed with him all that time, and now they say, “Only Bukhari's 4,000 hadith,” and now they have reduced it to 3,000 ahadeeth. Is that it? There are a lot more. How many hadith did Sayyidina Abu Bakr as-Siddiq (r) mention about the Prophet (s)? He was the closest Companion and migrated with him which took many days to go from Mecca to Madina. Did not the Prophet (s) tell him different hadith every moment? What we know from Sayyidina Abu Bakr as-Siddiq (r) is only 25 or 26 ahadeeth, not even 30. Where are they? They are there. So the Sahaabah (r) were listening to the Prophet (s) from morning to evening.

So this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (r) related that the Messenger of Allah (s) said:

وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال‏:‏ ‏ "‏ قال رجل لأتصدقن بصدقة، فخرج بصدقته، فوضعها في يد سارق، فأصبحوا يتحدثون‏:‏ تصدق على سارق‏!‏ فقال‏:‏ اللهم لك الحمد لأتصدقن بصدقة، فخرج بصدقته، فوضعها في يد زانية‏؟‏‏!‏ فأصبحوا يتحدثون‏:‏ تصدق على زانية فقال‏:‏ اللهم لك الحمد على زانية، لأتصدقن بصدقة، فخرج بصدقته، فوضعها في يد غني‏,‏ فأصبحوا يتحدثون‏!‏ تصدق الليلة على غني‏,‏ فقال‏:‏ اللهم لك الحمد على سارق ، وعلى زانية، وعلى غني‏!‏ فأتى فقيل له‏:‏ أما صدقتك على سارق، فلعله أن يستعف عن سرقته، وأما الزانية فلعلها تستعف عن زناها، وأما الغني فلعله أن يعتبر، فينفق مما آتاه الله‏"‏‏

`an abi hurayrah anna rasoolullah (s) qaal: qaala rajulun la atasadaqanna bi-sadaqah. fa kharaj bi-sadaqatihi fa-wada`ahaa fee yadi saariq. fa asbahoo yatahaddathoon: tasadaqa `alaa saariq. fa qaal allahuma laka ’l-hamd la-atasadaqanna bi-sadaqah. fa kharaj bi-sadaqatihi fa-wada`ahaa fee yadi zaaniya. fa asbahoo yatahaddathoon: tasadaq `alaa zaaniya. fa qaal allahuma laka ’l-hamd la-atasadaqanna bi-sadaqah. fa kharaj bi-sadaqatihi fa-wada`ahaa fee yadi ghaniyy. fa asbahoo yatahaddathoon: tasadaq al-laylayta `alaa ghaniyy. fa-qaal: allahuma laka ’l-hamdu `alaa sariqun wa `ala zaaniyyatin wa `alaa ghaniyy. fa ataa faqeela lahu: amma sadaqatuk `alaa saariq fa la`llahu yasta`nifa `an saraaqatih, wa amma ’z-zaaniyata fa la`llahaa tasta`nif `an zinaahaa, wa amma ’l-ghaniyy fala`allahu an ya`tabir fayunfiqu mimmaa aataahu ’Llaah. (Bukhari and Muslim with another wording)

A man said to himself, “Today I will give a sadaqa, charity.”

[Look this is going to flip your mind upside-down, and down-side up. [Laughter.] It is amazing this hadith, and there are many like that. Those who want to teach fiqh, let them teach such hadith to people, give them an opening, a mercy; give them a way out of their sins. They only focus on very structural hadith, which is very good, but there are ahadeeth that give you hope in this life so you end well in Akhirah.]

So he said, “I am going to give a charity.” He took the charity that he wanted to give and he saw someone whom he thought is poor and put sadaqa in his hands and it turned out that person was not poor, rather he was a thief, and he had given his charity to a thief! The people of the town began to speak about him, “He gave charity to a thief.” And that man said, “Alhamdulillah that I gave charity, I didn’t know but You let me give charity,” the thief was happy, he took it and left.

Then he made intention, everyday he made intention to give sadaqa to someone, so the next day he took the charity to give to someone in need. There was a lady passing, she looked poor and he took his money, [like doctors, they give a lot], so he took his charity and put it in the hand of that lady. That lady was a prostitute. The people began to talk about him, “Yesterday he gave to a thief and today he gave to a prostitute.” He got upset and said, “Tomorrow I am giving my charity to a right person.”

The next day, he went looking and saw one poor person. You may have seen a poor person not dressing well, they have lot, but are hiding themselves. So he passed by one who looked very disgusting and very poor, but was in reality very rich. He took his money and put it in the hand of this very rich man.The people began to speak saying, “He gave money to a rich man instead of giving to a poor one.” He became confused what he has to do? First he gave to a thief, second to a prostitute and third to a rich man! So he got fed up, as he didn’t know what to do. “Yaa Rabbee, all praise by to You. Everything goes back to you,” he was fed up and didn’t know what to say. “Yaa Rabbee, what can I do? I have given to a thief, a prostitute and a rich person, when my intention was to give to a poor person.

“He was called by an angel or received an inspiration, ‘As for the sadaqa you gave the thief it might be that the sadaqa you gave to the thief would turn him into a pious person...”

[I will explain a little bit here, “‘your intention was something, but My Will was something else. You want to give here, but I want you to give to this. It is not your decision, but My Will that I have written. It might be that the sadaqa you gave to the thief would turn him into a pious person, as it is sadaqa from a mu’min.’” That is what Allah is seeing which that man does not see. Through that money, Allah might change that man into a good person. So it means give to anyone; don’t say, “This is a thief or this is a prostitute.” If you want to give, then give.]

The hadith continues: “And as for the prostitute, it might be that because of that money she changes her mind and leaves off being a prostitute and becomes a good woman. And the rich man might take an example on learning to spend in Allah’s Way and become generous instead of being stingy.” (Sahih Bukhari)

So such sadaqa can do miracles. If it is making miracles for the thief, the prostitute and the rich, can it not make miracles for us? Of course it can. We continue next time.

Wa min Allah at-tawfeeq bi hurmati 'l-Fatihah

You see the importance of these ahadeeth, among many hadith of sadaqa or salaat, there are some hadith that are not only structural, but there are those which have interpretational meanings that give an idea of Allah’s Great Mercy by which everyone will be saved. They open our minds more and more, not to be very narrow and limited in order to understand Prophet (s). May Allah forgive us. That is what we know and if we did something wrong we ask forgiveness from the viewers and others.

Wa min Allahi 't-tawfeeq, bi hurmati 'l-habeeb, bi hurmati 'l-Fatihah.


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Haqqani Suhbats: 'Kiss The Hand, Kiss The Feet' by Sultan ul-Awliya Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Qs)

Haqqani Suhbats: 'Kiss The Hand, Kiss The Feet' by Sultan ul-Awliya Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Qs)

Kiss The Hand, Kiss The Feet

By Sultanul Awliya Mawlana Shaykh Nazim Adil Al-Haqqani qs
11 August 2013,
Lefke Cyprus

Sultanul Awliya Mawlana Shaykh Nazim Adil Al-Haqqani qs

 
Elini Op, 8 September 2013

Here you are, O Shah Mardan! Your friends admire you. Yawmun jadīd, rizqun jadīd. Madad, Ya Sahib az-Zaman. Madad, Ya Shah Mardan. Dastur! O Rijal Allah! Janabu l-Mawla gave us hands, may we raise them. Let's look up to the heavens, and say, "O our Lord!" He created us, favoured us with faith. Favour; He honoured us with faith. From the honour of Al Habibu lKibriya, You granted us too, Ya Rabbi! Shukr to Allah, shukr to Allah, shukr Ya Rabb. Sahib az-Zaman. O Holy Yaran! May we listen to Shah Mardan! May we understand his holy words! Allah!

Dastur! We are not those who know something, but, from the knowledge of holy ones and Shah Mardan, may we receive our share of benefit. Let's learn adab! We are asking for it, so he favours us. Shah Mardan, Habību r-Rahmān. His face is beautiful, he is beautiful. Who received beauty from our Prophet, who is the most beautiful, among the beautiful ones. Marhaban! Ay Yaran, let's listen! What is Shah Mardan saying? He is preparing a morsel for us. May we be on the way of adab. Madad comes for the ones who watch their adab. Madad comes.

This is an important point, Hajji Mehmet! Watch your adab, madad comes! What shall we do? We would like to keep adab according to our state and we ask also, for adab to be granted to us from Janabu l-Mawla. He sent us to this world, Janab Allah dressed us with honour from His Divine Sultanate. May we give our shukr, may we give our shukr!

Madad, Ya Shah Mardan. Marhaba Ya Hadirūn, marhaba. With this ‘marhaba’ comes a power to us. Marhaba descends from the heavens. Let's say, "Marhaba!" Marhaba, Ay Ali Sultan! Who is Ali Sultan? Rasul Kibriya, the honour of this universe, our Prophet! Shukr to Allah! Please go on, Shah Mardan! According to our state, we are being shown the ways of adab. Adab gives honour to people.

Those without adab, lose their honour. Allah Dhū l-Jalāl gave us honour. We must observe adab in honour of Allah Dhū l-Jalāl, and His Habibu l-Kibriya. We must respect them and respect the holy ones who are on their way; it is their privilege. They are privileged. How to honour that privilege? That cat when it wants to be loved, draws near with love and shows its love, complimenting, clinging to you, happily caressing your hand. The cat kisses your hand. You should kiss the hands and the feet of Shah Mardan to show your respect; as a gesture of admiration, as a compliment. Bow low and present your love. Love takes you to higher levels.

Please go on Shah Mardan! Wa fauqā kulli dhī ‘ilmin ‘alīm. The more you learn, the more you know. There will always be knowing-ones, exceeding in knowledge above yours, wa fauqā kulli dhī ‘ilmin ‘alīm. ‘Alīm (All-Knowing) is Janabu l-Haqq. No one can surpass Him (in knowledge). Impossible! Tauba Ya Rabbi! Tauba Ya Rabbi! Qūrbiyyat, seeking His nearness should be our service, Sheikh Mehmet Effendi, Mehmet! In this world, attaining nearness to Rabbu l-Izzat, striving for nearness is the greatest honour of men. Please go on Shah Mardan! May he give strength to our bodies. The robe of honour comes from heavens.

O our Lord! Owner of earths and heavens! We are failing in our servanthood. We wish to but, we are failing in servanthood worthy of Janab ar-Rabbu l-Izzat. Show nearness and love, at least, like that of a cat.

"Kiss the hands and the feet! Kiss the hands and feet (of the holy ones)! Those who are not humble enough to kiss their hands and feet, and those who say, "No, we won't kiss them”. There will come a time when they will have to kiss the of the lowest of creation. They will be made to kiss or kneel in order to receive what they ask for! Learn adab!"

Please go on, Shah Mardan! -Some words, to give us strength and power. We are not asking for animal power but asking what is offered to mankind from the heavens; we ask for heavenly power! Don't look to earthly power! The work of earthly ones is related to animal power. Your gaze should be upon the heavens. Don't value earthly things. Not its gold or its treasures; everything around the world, don't hunger for it! They give you no benefit.

What gives benefit is as we say, “to cling” to the Awliya, like cats that caress those they love, those to whom they show affection. Show affection and nearness to the holy ones so that they don't distance themselves from you. Allah Dhū l-Jalāl's servants are like Shah Mardan; cheerfully chirping, roaming around the world: "Is there someone looking for us?" "Is there someone asking for us?" Holy, spiritual ones saying this and flying around continually. May Allah keep our assembly with them, not away from them. Here he is, Shah Mardan, condescending to us, offering to relate these words for his yaran. Ay Yaran Shah Mardan.

"Show nearness! Nearness to the Awliya Allah means nearness to Janabul Haqq. Love and respect for His Habib-i Kibriya carries you to the love and respect of Allah. The rank of man rises, his nūr (light) increases."

O our Lord, for the sake of al-Habib al-Kibriya, don't distance us from the door of Your Generosity. Ya Rabbi! Give us strength, Ya Rabbi! May our faces be light, may our hearts be purified! May our inner selves be cleaned! Don't toil after this world! Don't run after dunya! Let dunya run after you! What beautiful words, Shah Mardan! Don't run after dunya! Leave it, then dunya will run after you. Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar wa liLlāhi l-hamd!

It gives health and wellness to our bodies, and our heart is purified, cleared like a mirror. The Majesty of Rabbu l-Izzat; You can see the signs of His Majesty. Who sees the signs, gets a sign. Who doesn't see, is blind. He doesn't get a sign. If you want a sign, the sign of Janabu l-Haqq's Majesty, see it in an ant, see it in an elephant. Janabu l-Haqq will give you from that honour! Ay Yaran Shah Mardan! Say, shukr Allah, He let us reach this day, He gave health to our bodies. He granted us His servanthood. Janabu l-Haqq offered us His servanthood. He accepted us.

What a great honour to be at the Sultan's service! Can one who serves in a barn be equal to one in service of the Sultan? Most of these people are serving their evil ego. No service for their Lord! What is the reward of serving the evil ego? One day, your evil ego will kick you away, not only you, but them as well! Ay Yaran Shah Mardan, don't serve your evil ego! Bridle your nafs (ego) so that it can take you from west to east, no need for a plane or a car! The nafs has that power too! Spiritual power is given to the one who can dominate his ego. His ego serves him.

However, people became the slaves of their evil egos. They became slaves. His own ego won't leave him, it won't serve him. And this is the case. The nafs is appointed to serve us. We are not appointed to serve our nafs. We are appointed for the servanthood of the Lord, not for slavery by the nafs. In this is majesty. Notice what Shah Mardan says, if you serve your Lord, your station rises, you increase in your degree. Your heart gets refreshed, your body strengthens, your honour elevates. Ya Rabbi! The honour appointed to us - we are asking for the honour appointed for mankind.

Then, you should learn! Learn and gain that honour! Where are people, where are humans? Insān! The exalted Human Being! Exalted (Hazrat), it is said. Don't struggle after your poor bodies! A morsel can satisfy you if you keep your Lord's servanthood! If you are serving satan, despite all the wealth of dunya being given to you: "hal min mazīd" (50:30) - you would still say, "Isn't there more?" Greedy! Shameless! - A chacteristic that is never satisfied, which belongs to the evil ego, the bad nafs.

Of all of Allah's Creation, Sheikh Mehmet Effendi, the ugliest is the nafs because the nafs has no light, no spirituality. So, it is the ugliest that was given to mankind. People are running after it! The ego is the ugliest but they are running to satisfy it! The most dirty, the most filthy, shameless, the ugliest creation is the human ego, the nafs. "Inna n-nafs al-ammaratun bi s-sū" (12:53). What is this nafs for? It wants every badness. It doesn't keep clean at the Diwan of Haqq. Dissatisfied in being the Lord's servant, it struggles to satisfy its evil greed. This is the situation of the people of this world -satisfying their bad egos.

Please go on, Shah Mardan, the Sun who rises in the East and sets in the West. Make sajda to Rabbu l-Izzat, ask His forgiveness and mercy. Ask for His grants. Allahu Akbar, our strength. Ya Rabbi. We have strength. For making this service we have strength, Hajji Mehmet. Their masculinity is not clear, their femininity is not clear, those people! What are they called? They are useless. A man must be like a lion. One who serves Allah is like a lion. One who serves Allah is not ugly, nor is he ill. May Allah remove our heaviness! The holy ones will take it! The holy ones will take it. Let's say "Bismillahi r-Rahmani r-Rahim!" May our faces be beautiful! May our bodies be healthy! May our deeds be righteous. May our intentions be righteous! Don't be crooked!

Let's be righteous! If you are righteous you will find salvation. Those not following righteous ways, will not find salvation. They will fall. They will fall. Acrobats who used to walk on tightropes, toppled easily with one wrong step. That is! "Ihdina s-Sirāt al-Mustaqīm" (1:6). Our Prophet is asking the Lord: "Help us on Sirāt al-Mustaqīm, Ya Rabbi!"

The way to Allah is in righteousness. You must be clean. This can be seen on your face. You are filled with love and ardour, with the love of Allah, and the love and longing of His Rasul Kibriya. Your face cannot be ugly. Ay Shah Mardan, your words are admired by the yaran. Let's walk on their way. It is the way to Paradise. Other ways are the ways of hell. May Allah keep us away from the ways of hell. O Shah Mardan, we want strength. We want energy. We want to learn adab for our Lord's servanthood.

Addabani Rabbi - our Prophet was given it. Our Prophet said, "My Lord taught me adab." May we be with the ones who teach the adab of that Sultan. Their association can make us like lions. Those accompanying donkeys, become donkeys. One in the company of a lion, becomes a lion.

Wa min Allah at-tawfiq. Fatiha.

Holy Month of Hajj, Pilgrimage to The Lord of Power, Amalan Awrad Dzul Hijah

Holy Month of Hajj, Pilgrimage to The Lord of Power


From Sultan al Awliya

This year 2013, Zulhijjah begins on the 6th Of October 2013. The Prophet (saw) said: "There are no days in which righteous deeds are more beloved to Allah, than these ten days. One fast during these ten days is equal to the fasting of one complete year, and the worship of one night during this period is equal to the worship in the Lailatul-Qadr." (Tirmizi). Let us learn more about these blessed 10 days!

Days of Virtue and Righteous Deeds - Notes from Shaykh Abdul Qadir Jilani's 'Sufficient Provision for Seekers of the Path of Truth' as well as from Maulana Shaykh Nazim's Suhbahs


Praise be to Allah who has created time and made some times better than others. Some months and days and nights are better than others, when rewards are multiplied many times, as a mercy towards His servants. This encourages them to do more righteous deeds and makes them more eager to worship Him, so that the Muslim renews his efforts to gain a greater share of reward, and to prepare himself for death in readiness for the Day of Judgement.

This season of worship brings many benefits, such as the opportunity to correct one's faults and make up for any shortcomings or anything that one might have missed. Every one of these special occasions involves some kind of worship through which the servants may draw closer to Allah, and some kind of blessing through which Allah bestows His favour and mercy upon whomsoever He will. The happy person is the one who makes the most of these special months, days and hours. He draws nearer to his Lord during these times through acts of worship. He will most likely be touched by the blessing of Allah and will feel the joy of knowing that he is safe from the flames of Hell.

The virtue of these ten days of Zulhijjah is based on:

(1) Allah has preferred these 10 days over all the other days of the year. Ibn 'Abbas (ra) reported that the Prophet (saw) said: "There are no days in which righteous deeds are more beloved to Allah than these ten days." The people asked, "Not even jihad for the sake of Allah?" He said, "Not even jihad for the sake of Allah, except in the case of a man who went out to fight giving himself and his wealth up for the cause, and came back with nothing."

(2) Allah swears an oath by them, and swearing an oath by something is indicative of its importance and great benefit. Allah says in the Quran, "...by the dawn; by the ten nights" (Surah Al-Fajr 89: 1-2). This refers to the first ten days of Zulhijjah.

(3) The Prophet (saw) commanded us to recite a lot of Tasbeh ("Subhan-Allaah"), Tahmeed ("Al-hamdu Lillaah") and Takbeer ("Allahu Akbar") during this time. 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar (ra) reported that the Prophet (saw) said: "There are no days greater in the sight of Allah and in which righteous deeds are more beloved to Him than these ten days, so during this time recite a great deal of Tahlil ("La ilaaha ill-Allah"), Takbeer and Tahmeed."
These ten days include Yawm 'Arafah (the Day of 'Arafah, 9th Zulhijjah), on which Allah perfected His Religion. Fasting on this day will remove the sins of two years. These days also include Yawm al-Nahar (the Day of Sacrifice, 10th Zulhijjah), the greatest day of the entire year and the greatest day of Hajj, which combines acts of worship in a way unlike any other day.

Among the good deeds, which the Muslim should strive to do during the first ten days of Zulhijjah, are:

(1) Fasting the first nine days, especially on the 9th of Zulhijjah (Day of Arafah). The mother of the believers, Hafsah (ra) reports that Rasulullah (saw) used to fast the first nine days of Zulhijjah. For those not performing hajj, it is desirable to fast on this day according to their own lunar calendar dates of their own country. According to a hadith, the fast of this day becomes a cause, hopefully so, of forgiveness for sins committed for two years (the year before, and the year after).

When the Prophet (saw) was asked regarding the fast on the day of Arafah, he replied: "The fast on this day (will expedite) washes past years sins, as well as the remaining years."

(2) Zikir. It is Sunnah to say Takbeer ("Allahu Akbar"), Tahmeed ("Alhamdu Lillaah"), Tahlil ("La ilaha ill-Allah") and Tasbeeh ("Subhan Allah") during the first ten days of Zulhijjah, and to say it loudly in the mosque, the home, the street and every place where it is permitted to remember Allah and mention His name out loud, as an act of worship and as a proclamation of the greatness of Allah, may He be exalted.
Men should recite these phrases out loud, and women should recite them quietly.
Rasulullah (saw) said: "The best form of ibadah (acts of devotion) is to recite the Qur'an."

(3) Performing Hajj and 'Umrah. One of the best deeds that one can do during these ten days is to perform Hajj to the Sacred House of Allah. The one whom Allah helps to go on Hajj to His House and to Perform all the rituals properly is included in the words of the Prophet (saw): "An accepted Hajj brings no less a reward than Paradise."

(4) Doing more good deeds in general, because good deeds are beloved by Allah and will bring a great reward from Him. Whoever is not able to go to Hajj should occupy himself at this blessed time by worshipping Allah, praying (salat), reading Quran, remembering Allah, making supplication (du'a), giving charity, honouring his parents, upholding the ties of kinship, enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil, and other good deeds and acts of worship. Prophet (saw) said: "There are no days in which righteous deeds are more beloved to Allah than these ten days."

(5) Sacrifice (Qurban). Those who have enough wealth to pay Zakaat must offer the sacrifice for Allah, it is wajib in Mazhab Maliki, Hambali and Hanafi, and a very strong Sunnat in Mazhab Shafie. The Prophet (saw) said, "Whoever has the means to perform a sacrifice, but did not, let him not approach my mosque."

Choose a high-quality animal, fatten it, spend money for the sake of Allah. It is the tradition of Prophet Ibrahim (as) and a strongly recommended Sunnah. A lamb, sheep, goat , cow, buffalo, or camel can be offered as the sacrifice. There are seven shares in a cow, buffalo and camel. The sacrifice should be accomplished by slaughtering the animal after Salaat-al-Eid. The sacrifice also called Udhiyah or Qurbani lasts for four days from 10th Zulhijjah until the sunset of 13th Zulhijjah.

The meat should be divided into three shares: one for the family, the second for relatives and friend and the third share is for the poor and the needy. Or all of the meat can be given to the needy, if that is needed in the area you are doing the sacrifice.

Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) said: "On the 10th of Zul-Hijjah, there is no better act in the view of Allah than shedding the blood (of Slaughtered animals). And verily sacrifice earns the approbation of Allah even before the drop of blood (of the slaughtered animal) falls on the ground. Hence you should offer it in good spirit (sincerely). For every hair of the sacrificial animal, there is a blessing."

What must the Muslim avoid during these ten days if he wants to offer a sacrifice?

The Sunnah indicates that the one who wants to offer a sacrifice must stop cutting his hair and nails and removing anything from his skin, from the beginning of the ten days until after he has offered his sacrifice, because the Prophet (saw) said: " When you see the new moon of Zulhijjah, if any one of you wants to offer a sacrifice, then he should stop cutting his hair and nails until he has offered his sacrifice."

Whoever needs to remove some hair, nails, etc. because it is harming him, such as having a broken nail or a wound in a site where there is hair, should do so, and there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with men or women washing their heads during the first ten days of Zulhijjah, because the Prophet (saw) only forbade cutting the hair, not washing it.

The wisdom behind this prohibition of the one who wants to offer a sacrifice from cutting his hair etc, is so that he may resemble those in ihram in some aspect of the rituals performed, and so that he may draw closer to Allah by offering the sacrifice. If a person has cut his hair or nails during the first ten days of Zulhijjah because he was not planning to offer a sacrifice, then he decides later, during the ten days, to offer a sacrifice, then he must refrain from cutting his hair and nails from the momen the makes this decision.

This prohibition appears to apply only to the one who is offering the sacrifice, not to his wife and children, unless any of them is offering a sacrifice in his or her own right, because the Prophet (saw) used to sacrificed "on behalf of the family of Muhammad," but there are no reports that say he forbade them to cut their hair or nails at that time.

(6) Sincere repentance. One of the most important things to do during these ten days is to repent sincerely to Allah and to give up all kinds of disobedience and sin. Repentance means coming back to Allah and foregoing all the deeds, open and secret, that He dislikes, out of regret for what has passed, giving it up immediately and being determined never to return to it, but to adhere firmly to the Truth by doing what Allah loves.

If a Muslim commits a sin, he must hasten to repent at once, without delay, firstly because he does not know when he will die, and secondly because one evil deed leads to another. Repentance at special times is very important because in most cases people's thought turn towards worship at these times, and they are keen to do good, which leads to them recognizing their sins and feeling regret for the past.

Allah says: "But as for him who repented, believed and did righteous deeds, then he will be among those who are successful." (Surah Al-Qasas 28:67)


The Day of Arafah (9th Zulhijjah)

The 9th day of Zulhijjah is called 'Yawmul Arafah' (The Day of 'Arafah). This is the date when the Hujjaj ( pilgrims) assemble on the plain of 'Arafat, six miles away from Makkah al-Mukarramah, where they perform the most essential part of the prescribed duties of hajj, namely, the 'Wuqoof of Arafat (the stay in 'Arafat)'.
Beginning from the Fajr of the 9th Zulhijjah up to the 'Asr prayer of the 13th, it isobligatory on each Muslim to recite the Takbir of Tashreeq after every fard prayer in the following words. "Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, La Ilaha Illallahu, Wallahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar wa lillahilhamd."(There is no God but Allah and Allah is the greatest, Allah is the greatest and to Allah belongs all praise.)

Whether one is performing salah with Jama'ah (collectively) or on one's own (individually) makes no difference, one should recite the Takbir. However, male Muslims should recite it in a loud voice, while females should recite it in a low voice.

Practices of the Day of Arafah for those at Arafah
  • For those going to Haj, they needn't fast on that day as they have many obligations to fulfill.
  • They must complete the reading of the Kitab, al-Hizbul 'Azam, also known as the Supreme Daily Dzhikir, a collection of prayers from Qur'an and Hadees, by Mullah Ali Qari. They are to read it from beginning to end.
  • They must not smoke cigarettes and sheesha.
  • They must not engage in frivolous talk, haggling, quarreling, arguing or wrangling.
  • They are to make fervent prayer (do'as/supplication), whilst pleading and weeping, seeking His Favours and Bounties.

If they do all these, they will emerge clean. If not, they will emerge (as dirty) as they entered Arafah.

Practices of the Day of Arafah for those not performing Haj

(1) Fast. Remember fasting means that your tongue, eyes, and all organs, must fast too, especially your heart. fasting on this day removes the sin of the previous year, and of the year to come.

(2) Recite:
  • 1000 Suratul Ikhlas, starting from morning and completing the reading before sunset, GrandShaykh Abdullah used to say this.
  • La Ilaha illa Allahu Wah'dahu La Shariqa Lah Lahul Mulk wa Lahul Hamd Yuhyi wa Yumit wa Huwa ala Kulli Shay'in Qadir 100x.
  • SubhanAllah, wal Hamdulilah, wa La Ilaha illallahu, wa Allahu Akbar, wa la Hawla wa la Quwwata illa Billah Al Aliyal Azim, 100x.
  • Istighfar 100x.
  • Salawat (salutations) on the Prophet (saw) 100x to 1000x.
You may increase all the above recitations to more than the stated numbers, and weep whilst you supplicate, beseeching Allah to grant you His favours.

(3) Make do'a for Ummah of Rasulullah (saw) and for our beloved Shaykh Nazim.
Shaykh Nazim said, "Pray for me that I am not placed in a position to be in need of anyone, pray that I am not confined to my bed, pray that I am not humiliated amongst people, pray that the love of Islam is always in our hearts, and that we are under the banner of Islam, here and hereafter."

(4) Perform Solat al-Khusama, preferably, between Zuhur and Asar (see explanation below)

Celebration of Eidil Adha The Night Preceding 'Eid-ul-Adha' (10th Zulhijjah)

It had been the practice of the Prophet (saw), that he would not sleep in the night preceding the day of Eid-ul-Adha. Almighty grants all do'as/prayers in this night. Therefore, it is desirable to perform much do'as/prayers and worship in this night. The Prophet (saw), is reported to have said: "Whoever stands up (in worship) in the nights preceding the two Eids expecting rewards from his Lord, his heart will not die when the other hearts will die." (Ibn Majah)

Hence one should not be busy shopping, cooking, decorating or partying on this night, it is a Night Allah looks at His Servants and grants their needs.

On Eidul Adha / Hari Raya Haji itself

(1) Before going to Eid prayer, it is Sunnah to bathe, brush teeth, wear your best clothes and for men to put on perfume.

(2) It is forbidden to fast on this day, but you are not to eat before performing the Eid prayers. Eat only after Eid prayers or after the sacrifice, if you are doing a sacrifice.

(3) Given the choice of praying at the mosque or at a Multi Purpose hall, stadium or open space, choose the latter. The Prophet (saw) did not perform Solat Eidul Adha at the Mosque, he held it at the open ground, so it is a Sunnah to do that.

(4) Go early for Eid prayers.

(5) Women and children are also encouraged to join in the festivities by going to that gathering. Even menstruating women may go, and although they cannot pray, they can listen to the Eid Khutbah.

(6) In the Eid prayer, the Khutbah is after the prayer (unlike Friday prayers when the Khutbah is before the prayer). Do not talk during the Khutbah - listen respectfully, as if it were the Prophet (saw) speaking to you from the mimbar.

(7) The Eid Solat is a two raka'at prayer. It is identical to any other 2 raka'at prayer except that there are some extra takbirs (Allahu akbar) inserted in each raka'at. In the first ra'ka'at, between the Takbiratul ihram and Suratul Fatihah, there are 7 additional takbirs. In the second raka'at, before reading Suratul Fatiha, there are 5 additional takbirs. (This is for followers of Mazhab Shafi'e) Intention: I am performing my Solat Sunnat Eidul Adha prayer, 2 raka'at, for the sake of Allah.

(8) Return home by a different route from which you came. This is also a Sunnah of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw).

(9) If you missed the prayer at the mosque because you woke up late, you may pray this Solat Eid at home, on your own. Just make the intention, and pray a two raka'at prayer, remembering to add the 7 extra takbirs in the first raka'at, and the 5 extra takbirs in the second raka'at. The prayer can be done anytime from 15 minutes after sunrise to just before the azan of Solat Zuhur. Once past the azan of Zuhur, the time for the Eid Solat has lapsed.

(10) Spend the day in good acts, like zikir, charity, the best good deed of which is to perform Qurban. It is an important Sunnah to perform Qurban every year.

(11) The Prophet (saw) summarised how we should spend Eid (Hari Raya) in a beautiful hadees, "Decorate your Eid (Hari Raya) with Takbir (Allahu akbar), Tahmid (Alhamdulillah), Tahlil (Lailahaillallah) and Tasbih (Subhanallah)."

(12) Solat al-Khusama can also be done on this day (and also on the day before), preferably between Zuhur prayers and Asar. Taught by Shaykh Abdul Qadir Jilani (q), it is a 4 raka'at prayer, done at one go with one salam at the end. It is done, so that the reward of it is donated to all people whom you have harmed and sinned against, so that Allah will use the reward to satisfy their claims on the Day of Resurrection, if He so wills.
It is done as follows:
  • 1st raka'at: Surah al-Fatihah, followed by Surah al-Ikhlas (Qul hu Allau ahad) 11 times
  • 2nd raka'at: Surah al-Fatihah, followed by Surah al-Ikhlas (Qul hu Allau ahad) 10 times, and Surah al-Kafiroon, 3 times
  • 3rd raka'at: Surah al-Fatihah, followed by Surah al-Ikhlas (Qul hu Allau ahad) 10 times, and Surah al-Takathur (Alha kumu takathur), 1 time. Surah al-Takathur is Surah number 102.
  • 4th raka'at: Surah al-Fatihah, followed by Surah al-Ikhlas (Qul hu Allau ahad) 15 times, and Ayatul Kusi 1 time.
Then donate the spiritual reward of the performance of this prayer, to all those enemies who will have a claim against you on Judgement Day.

This solat must be done on 7 specific occasions:
  • on the first night of Rajab
  • on the night of the middle of Sha'ban (15th Sha'ban)
  • on the last Friday of Ramadhan
  • on Idul Fitri (Hari Raya Puasa, 1st Syawal))
  • on Idul Adha (Hari Raya Haji, 10th Zulhijjah)
  • on the Day of Arafah (9th Zulhijjah)
  • on the day of Ashura (10th Muharram)

Summary of all worship in first half of Zulhijjah
Date of Zulhijjah
Prescribed worship for the day

Before 1st Zulhijjah

(1) For those doing Qurban/Sacrifice, if they wish to cut their hair or nails, it must be done before maghrib of the eve of 1st  Zulhijjah (anytime in Zulkaedah). Once it is Zulhijjah, they can only cut their nails or hair, after the sacrifice has been completed

(2) Night vigil begins from the eve of 1st Zulhijjah.

1st Zulhijjah

(1) Sunnat fasting (each day of fasting is equivalent to a year's fasting). When you perform sunnat fasting, you may also make intention to:
  • repay missed compulsory fasts or
  • complete nazar fasts or
  • do the sunnat fasting of Mon/Thurs (should these days fall on Mon/Thurs), alongside your intention to make sunnat fasting of Zulhijjah.
(2) Zikir - It is Sunnah to say Takbeer ("Allahu Akbar"), Tahmeed ("Alhamdu Lillaah"), Tahlil ("La ilaha ill-Allah") and Tasbeeh ("Subhan Allah") and repentance. Read Quran.

(3) Night vigil (each night's vigil is equivalent to one Lailatul Qadr) .

2nd Zulhijjah
3rd Zulhijjah
4th Zulhijjah
5th Zulhijjah
6th Zulhijjah
7th Zulhijjah

8th Zulhijjah (Day of Tarwiyah)
9th Zulhijjah (Day of Arafah)

(1) Sunnat Fasting and Zikir (see notes above)  
(2) Solat Sunnat al-Khusama may be performed between zuhur and asar  
(3) Eid takbir starts at maghrib.
(4) Fill the night before Eid with worship


10th Zulhijjah (Day of Sacrifice & Eid Adha/Hari Raya Haji)

(1) Eid prayer to be done before azan zuhur.                        

(2) Sacrifice (Qurban) should be done after Eid prayers. Once the sacrifice is completed, those who have completed their sacrifice, may cut their nails/hair, if they wish to.              

(3) It is forbidden to fast on this day.
(4) Eid takbir is recited all day, after every fardhu prayer.
(5) Solat Sunnat al-Khusama may be performed between zuhur and asar.


11th Zulhijjah (Day of Tashreeq)

(1) Sacrifice (Qurban) must be completed by 13th latest. Once the sacrifice is completed, those who have completed their sacrifice may cut their nails/hair, if they wish to.

(2) It is forbidden to fast on these 3 days.
(3) Eid takbir is recited after fardhu prayers, on all these days till asar of the 13th Zulhijjah.

12th Zulhijjah (Day of Tashreeq)
13th Zulhijjah (Day of Tashreeq)


14th Zulhijjah (White days)

These are the White Days of each Islamic month. It is a Sunnah to fast on these days. While fasting on these White days, you may also make intention to:
  • repay missed compulsory fasts or
  • complete nazar fasts or
  • do the sunnat fasting of Mon/Thurs (should these days fall on Mon/Thurs), alongside your intention to perform this sunnat fasting.

Haqqani Suhbats: 'Seclusion [Khalwat] ' by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani(Qs)

 Haqqani Suhbats: ' Seclusion [Khalwat] ' by Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani(Qs)

Seclusion [Khalwat]

By Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani qs

Sultanul Awliya Mawlana Syaikh Nazim Adil al-Haqqani qs

Bimillahir Rahmaanir Rahim

Seclusion [khalwat] is better than isolation [ uzlat] . It is a kind of isolation, that can only be prescribed by the shaikh. Its shortest time limit is 40 days, as mentioned in the Holy Qur’an about Sayiddina Musa (s), “And remember We appointed forty nights for Moses” (Surah al-Baqarah, 51). Muslim narrated that the Prophet (s) made seclusion in the cave of  ara for one complete month. Its aim is to clean the heart of connection to this world of material pleasures, and to bring it to a state of remembrance of Allah, Almighty and Exalted. In it countless visions occur, and it elevates the murid to a state of knowing the self, and from there to a state of knowing Allah.

Seclusion requires the seeker to disconnect himself from people and to disengage himself from all material interactions for a set period of time. His heart must be engaged only in God’s Remembrance, and his mind relaxed from daily concerns. All this must take place under the guidance of a gnostic shaikh, to teach us if we forget, and to remind us if we are heedless, and to throw out of the heart all gossip and whispers of the ego.
The shaikh orders the murid to seclude himself in a room where he will be served every day only with what is necessary for survival. Then he will teach his tongue the way of reciting Dhikr, until he will be engaged with that recitation. The shaikh will support his murid in opening the Vision of the Divine Presence in the heart (surat al-mushahada fil-qalb). Whatever happens to the murid during the seclusion, he must tell his shaikh, and he must conceal it from anyone other than the shaikh.

Seclusion is not an innovation but is an order of Allah, Almighty and Exalted, in his Holy Book and in the example of the Prophet (s). The Prophet (s) used to make seclusion in the cave of Hira in the mountains of Makkah, remembering Allah, Almighty and Exalted. It is indicated in the Qur’an, in Surat al-Muzzamil, (73, 8): “So remember the name of thy Lord, and devote thyself to Him with full devotion.”
Allama Abu Sacad in his commentary on the explanation of the Qur’an by Fakhr ad-Din ar-Razi, volume 8, p. 338, says, “The meaning of this verse is to keep secluding yourself from anyone other than Allah, Almighty and Exalted, remembering Him day and night, by tasbih, tahmid and tahlil, and to disconnect yourself, by all the power you have, and approach Him through the meditative stations such that you will not see anyone except Him, and be away from connections to other than Him through that meditation.”

Meditation here rests on seclusion. The proof for this in the Qur’an can be found in the story of Maryam (s), the mother of Jesus (s): “So her Lord accepted her with a gracious acceptance, and caused her to grow an excellent growth, and made Zakariyya (s) her guardian. Whenever Zakariya visited her in her seclusion he found with her provision. He said, ‘O Maryam, whence hast thou this?’ She replied, ‘It is from Allah. Surely, Allah gives to whomsoever He pleases without measure.’” (Ali Imran, 37)

Allah said in the Qur’an, in Surat al-Kahf (ayat 16), mentioning the story of the companions of the cave, they were ordered, “Betake yourself to the Cave: your Lord will shower His mercies on you and dispose of your affair towards comfort and ease.”

Similary, seclusion has a proof in the sunnah. Bukhari reports that Ayesha said, “The Prophet loved to make seclusion. And he was secluding himself in the Cave of Hira.” Imam Nawawi, explained the hadith of Ayesha, “To be alone with the one you love is the real seclusion. It is the way of the pious and it is the way of knowers.”
He said, in his explanation of Sahih Muslim, “The Prophet (s) said, ‘Seclusion was made to be loved by him,’ because with it the heart will be empty of all this materialistic life, and it will be in peace. It helps to deepen the meditation on Allah’s Divine Presence, and with it his attachments to dunya will decrease, and with it his reverence will increase.”

Imam Zuhri said, “I wonder at people, that they have left seclusion. The Prophet (s) was doing some things and then leaving them, yet he never left seclusion until he died.”

Abi Jamra said in explanation of this hadith, “The Prophet, when he secluded himself and left people behind and disconnectd himself from this world, received revelation from Jibril in the Cave of Hira. Anyone who will imitate the Prophet in doing seclusion, under the order of his shaikh, will be lifted to the state of sainthood.

“The proof of seclusion is that the Prophet (s), through his seclusion in the Cave of Hira, was lifted up to the state in which he received revelation. During his seclusions the first fruit was true dreams, and from that state he was elevated to the state in which he received revelation, to the state where he could receive revelation from the angel Jibril. Then he was lifted up more and more until he reached, during the Night of Ascension, the Divine Presence, to the station of two bows’ length or nearer.”

“All these stations were the fruit of his seclusion in the Cave of Hira. We see from this, that if we follow the footsteps of the Prophet (s), we will be lifted from one state to another, until we reach the high states of sainthood, and we will find ourselves in the Divine Presence.”

Shaikh ‘Abul Qadir said, “From the cave of Hira, where the Prophet (s) used to make seclusion, the light emanated, the dawn shone forth, and sunrise came. The first sparks of the luminescence of Islamic Sufism were struck. Never did the Prophet (s) leave his seclusion, even when he left the cave of Hira. All his life he was making seclusion, in the last ten days of Ramadan every year.”

Imam Qastallani, in explaining this hadith, in his book “Rashad us-Sari” vol. 1, p. 62, “Seclusion will put the heart in peace and open in it fountains of wisdom, because it will disconnect the murid from the materialistic life and enable him to remember Allah, Almighty and Exalted. In his seclusion he must also isolate himself and seclude himself from himself, to see only Allah, Almighty and Exalted. At that time only will he receive Unseen Knowledge, and his heart will be a foundation for it.”

Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani said, in explaining the hadith of ‘Ayesha, “The seclusion is emptying the heart of everything except Allah.” [Fath al-Bari, v.1, p. 18]

Abul Hasan ash-Shadili said, “There are ten benefits from seclusion:
  1. Safety from all misconduct of the tongue, because there is no one to talk to in seclusion
  2. Safety from all misconduct of the eyes, because there is no one to see from human beings
  3. Safety of the heart from all kinds of show, and other like illnesses
  4. It will lift you to the state of asceticism
  5. It will save you from accompanying evil people
  6. It will give you free time to do dhikr
  7. It will give you the sweet taste of worship, and prayers and supplication to the Divine Presence
  8. It will give satisfaction and peace to the heart
  9. It will keep your ego from falling into bad manners
  10. It will give you the time to meditate and make account of yourself, and to make your goal the Divine Presence.

That is what the Prophet mentioned in his hadith, narrated by Bukhari, in the book of Riqaq. Abu Huraira reported that the Prophet said (s), “There are seven who will be kept under Allah’s Shadow, on the Day when there is no shadow other than Allah’s Shadow… One of them is a man who makes dhikr in seclusion, and the tears are coming from his eyes.”


Explanation of Seclusion by Sultan Awliya Shaikh ‘Abdullah ad-Daghestani qs

Once a famous French orientalist came to grandshaikh Abdullah Daghestani in Damascus and said, “O my master, I am coming to you after studying the Psalms, the Torah the Bible and the Holy Qur’an. I have studied all kinds of philosophy, all the religions, and many other systems of knowledge. But still, I feel nothing in my heart. I feel no satisfaction. On the contrary, it is as if I were standing on the edge of a cliff and were about to fall. I have become so shaky that I am going from one center to another, seeking what is real. Where can I reach that reality and gain satisfaction in my heart? Where can I find my Lord?”

“I have been everywhere. I have asked famous philosophers, orientalists, people whom I considered saints. I have read everything I could. Yet, when I have asked any scholar a question, I felt as if they were giving me an answer I already knew. They were not giving me anything new. I am confused.”

“I heard your name and I have finally come to you. After you I am not going anywhere. Will you give me an answer to my question? Whatever you say I will follow and believe. But if you do not give me an answer, I shall remain as I am, confused and uncertain for the rest of my life.”

Grandshaikh said, “My son, if you take the seed of an apple or any fruit and leave it there dry, for hundreds of years, it will remain dry. But if you take that seed and put it in a field and plant it, then come back after one month, you will find that a green sprout has come out. If you dig and try to find that seed you will not find it anymore, it has vanished, replaced by something new. If you continue to water that plant it will become a tree and that tree will give fruit. But where is the original seed? It has disappeared. There is no original seed anymore. The seed has become a large tree now, with fruit coming forth, giving people fruit to eat.”

“Similarly, if you take an egg and put it under a chicken for 21 days, after exactly twenty-one days that egg disappears and a new chick comes. Something new comes into being. If you look under the chicken you will no longer find the egg there. The egg has vanished. It was the twenty-one days under that chicken that turned it into a new generation.”

“Something similar happens with human beings when they are in their mother’s womb for about nine months and ten days. Inside that womb they are without any connection to anything outside, alone. Yet after those nine months and ten days of loneliness there will come forth a new generation, a new creation. My son, in everyone of these three examples there was something that went into seclusion. The seed cut itself off from the material world above the ground and went into seclusion for several weeks, then a new plant emerged. The egg went into seclusion under its mother, with no connection to the material life outside its shell and came out a new generation. The sperm went into seclusion in the egg within the mother’s womb for nine months, without connection to the external world of their materialistic life, but after the seclusion it emerged a new generation.”

“My son, if you do not enter into seclusion, then never say to yourself, as the seed says to itself, ‘I want to cut myself off from the materialistic life of this world and vanish from it for the love of God and for the benefit of other human beings.’ For the seed begets fruit. If you do not experience a retreat like this, if you don’t cut yourself from the materialistic life, forsake your ego and complete sacrifice and vanish into nothingness to exist only in God, never will you find your ultimate reality, your true self. Never will you be like that tree that gives fruit for people to eat. If you will not be like that egg and sever yourself from materialism, retreating into the shell of seclusion and existing only in the presence of your Lord, meditating, concentrating on Him, worshipping Him in your heart, keeping His Presence always in your heart, never will you find that satisfaction and happiness you seek.”

“Why must you imitate that sperm that enters into seclusion for nine months? The mother’s womb consists of three layers. This was mentioned 1400 years ago in the Holy Qur’an in Surat az-Zumar, 6;, at a time when no microscopes existed. The Prophet (s) also said, ‘The womb of a mother is composed of darknesses, i.e. of layers.’ You must enter into this loneliness, severing your bond to everything external, cutting yourself off from the material things of this world, to be alone with your Lord, and thus make connection to your ultimate reality, by fitting that image you wear here to its original in the Divine Presence.”

“Never will you know satisfaction, no matter how many books you read, for when you read, you only hear the books. The knowledge they contain is only hearsay knowledge, and not real. Yet in seclusion, you not only hear but you feel. You will not only see, but you will smell. It is then that the eyes of the heart open. My son if you don’t enter into seclusion, your heart will never feel the contentment you have been so long seeking.”

Immediately the scholar said, “You have given me an answer to my question and a solution to my problem that I have never yet received from anyone. My heart is open. Show me the way.” Grandshaikh gave him permission to enter into seclusion in a designated place, cutting himself off from everything. He entered that place an ordinary man, but after one year he left it a saint.”

Wa min Allah at Tawfiq

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